There are many kinds of broken hearts. Real Broken Hearts and the broken heart of love unrequited. I know a young girl who is lovely and beautiful. She is educated and very smart. More importantly, she has a heart of gold. She is a good friend, a good daughter, a good sister, and she was a wonderful girlfriend. Going to her boyfriend’s house after work and cooking dinner, being so tired but seeing him anyway. Being so kind to his mother when she was going through a rough time.
Everyone that knew her knew that this young man was just not for her. He only works sometimes, makes excuses not to go to work and complains about money. He knows nothing about romance. He is too lazy to visit her at work for lunch or bring her a coffee even though is not working. He complains when they go out because he doesn’t want to spend his money buying dinner or drinks.
He said terrible things to her that I would never put in writing. He walked out of her house over the weekend because of something very stupid. She stayed up half the night in sadness but went to work the next day anyway.
Her heart is shattered and her trust in men is nil. Wise people in her life who have gone through break ups before can see that this is probably one of the greatest things that could have happened to her. Her family is relieved but they grieve because she is heart broken and very teary from time and time. She is lonesome, and yet very young and doesn’t understand what she did to make him leave for good.
Those of us that know her know that she did absolutely nothing. He is just what we would call “a bad apple”….and we pray for her to move on quickly….